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Is there absolute friendship between genders?

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16 days agoSteemit4 min read

We can be friends, he said
I answered: Yes
It worked out well
We were buddies till...
The sky fell

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Will you be my friend?
Okay

First contact
Only one word and the friendship was settled
Both needed a buddy
While holding Teddy
A strange environment
Away from home
Mom had left each of them behind
Kindergarten

Is it possible to remain friends for life? To them, it is since who shares your fears, knows about your dreams and wishes, mean mom and absent dad, about you still wedding the bed, who laughs and cries with you, pets your shoulder is a true friend, a friend for life. Friendships like these shouldn't be broken by adults.

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Happy and a bit scared
I am glad you are here.
Me too
It's scary, the goodbye, mixed feelings.
Good and some bad memories
You and me, let's stay together
I'll marry you if I'm old enough
Both giggled

Marriage it's just a word, there's no adult meaning behind it. It's free of responsibilities and without parental involvement. If children talk about marriage race, gender, and age doesn't play a role all they say is: _I like you, you make me feel good, let's stay together._

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Do you remember this?
Our staycation, we looked so young!
It was dumb staying home, everyone went abroad.
Not me
How skinny we looked
We ate a lot of ice-cream.
Yes, you did!

Meeting up with a childhood friend, separate ways for a thousand and one reasons. The bond is still there since childhood relationships are stronger than any other relationship. It's the period of life where we act instinctively, respond automatically, learn to trust, discover our boundaries and let not the reason of society influence our friendship yet.

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Do I know you, he asked
She sat down next to him on the bench
Is it occupied?
He shook his head
I don't see your name on it.
Both laughed.
A new friendship started.

Is there such a thing as friendship between gender? Can we be picky at all if it comes to friendship, who to put trust in, laugh and cry with? Friendship is about souls connecting which is already hard enough. Gender does not play a role when it comes to friendship since it is a completely different level than romantic or sex-related relationships which take place between the same gender as well. Best (childhood) friends rarely see each other as marriage material if that would have been the case they had married long ago.

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How good it is to have you near
Still friends after all those years
We started together and went separate ways
Brother and sister, besties till the end

There's no need to knock on my door
It's always open for a friend
You are welcome
Know you'll always feel home to me

A bloodline is no guarantee for friendship and friendships can be stronger than any bloodline because friends are the people we choose to be close with and like to have around. A true friend accepts and respects you the way you are, says the truth and accepts you flaws included.

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So much better
No pressure
We both know who we are
Different souls
United
Brighten each other's lives
We share
Love, laugh, cry and care
Grow together and enjoy life
Society doesn't matter

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