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3 years agoSteemit3 min read

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Bad decisions are something we would all like to avoid, but not everyone can, and a significant number of people continue to make bad decisions, which can have a negative impact on a person's personality and lead to depression. In this article, I'd like to discuss why people make such bad decisions and how they can avoid them.

Sticking to the past

Many people get stuck in the past, and whenever they are about to go through a new life experience or event, they start remembering something from the past that was mostly a failure, which makes them unhappy and leads them to make decisions they weren't supposed to make if they didn't think about what they might have done in the past, which might be related or not. It is primarily overthinking about things that occurred to them and the possibility that karma would strike them, which may be true, but they end up blaming everything on karma, despite the fact that they are accountable for their history and ideas. So good thought control, mental stability, and attempting to correct problems to prevent feeling guilty all the time are all necessary for making intelligent judgments without having the brain stopped by past mistakes or occurrences.

Worst-case scenario

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Thinking about the worst-case scenario is more likely to cause your objectives and dreams to slip away. If you take a step forward and begin to worry about failing, you will most likely fail, and instead of making a good decision to go forward in your life, you will have made a terrible one that will set you back 10 steps. Being optimistic is really important in life; the psychological force is strong enough to drive you to make either good or poor judgments. So it's better to be positive even if things don't go as planned than to imagine the worst and then claim that you predicted it.

Poor planning

Planning is a great skill that hardworking people can learn; all it takes is a good brain and a good study of the surrounding environment, and maybe simulation of what might happen if you know you are good to make a decisive decision, so taking into consideration all the expected scenarios is good enough most of the time to make good decisions.

Conclusion

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Good decisions and bad decisions are something we are responsible for, knowing their impact in the future is essential too, so don't blame anyone or anything but yourself, you can make good decisions even in the bad situations and if there isn't a way to make one then you will be capable to make the one with least losses so don't hesitate to take your time before making such decisions, and also don't underestimate planning.

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