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How do we yearn and seek to have?

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In our present life there are elements that are influential, since for example we live longing for things, we want children, we want a family, we want material goods, and in general it could be said that more than having is to fulfill needs, dreams and goals that are a natural source of human beings.

It does not matter under what circumstances we have not been able to obtain what we want, the important thing is to analyze that we have not been able to obtain it, sometimes time passes and the things we longed for in the past we still want them, but perhaps we are afraid to try to get them because we do not know if we will fail in the attempt, and in the end we end up adding disappointments and disappointments that mistreat our soul more and more.

The important thing is to keep a positive and reflective mentality, to be able to analyze correctly the reasons that prevent us from getting what we wanted in the past, once we know what elements made us not be able to get what we wanted in the past then we must ask ourselves the following question:

What should we change in the present that we did not do in the past?

That is why I say that change processes are necessary in our life, it is impossible that we can lead a life in a constant and linear way and get good results, when things do not work well a change is necessary, if in the past we were not given many things in relation to wanting to get something much desired, then in the present we must do something that we did not do in the past that makes a difference to get that so longed for the present.

I want this to be understood with the following example: If in the past we longed to have children and a family of our own and it did not happen, then we can not continue pretending the same thing today without wanting to change anything, logically the changes should not be improvised, suppose we did not have children in the past because we had infertility problems, then for the present if we want to have children we must go to the doctor and have some tests and see what condition causes our infertility, from there we can make changes in our health, do sports, and have a medication based on what our doctor has indicated.

If we extrapolate the example explained above, we realize that the changes after previous studies can make us get things that we wanted to get in the past and did not get, but perhaps in the present if we can get.

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