Greetings dear Steemians, it has been a while since I last shared my article here on this platform due to many commitments but I'm back fully once again. I want to join the contest organised here in this community by @richy20 which talks about the THE BEST ADVICE YOU HAVE EVER RECEIVED.
Elaborate More On The Best Advice You Have ever Received
The best advice I have ever received was the advice on marriage. As a young man growing up it got to a time where I feel the need to settle down then I decided to ask for guide and assistance with regards to the step I'm taking.
Here I got a very nice advice which says that I should try as much as I can to get money before going into marriage as there are reasons why that is needed. So when I heard that I immediately went back and put on my thinking cap and begin to meditate on what has been said to me.
It was indeed a very nice advice that I got and I was really impressed with the entire thing. The advice told me that I'm not have a happy marriage if I don't have money so I should do my best to get money no matter how little.
How did the advice impact your life positively, Explain
It impacted my life positively because I didn't later go into marriage because I never saw the things kept in front I was only thinking of the things within. I never knew that there is more to marriage other than saying I love you.
With the advice and some examples I was able to reset my mind and then I started thinking straight on better ways which I can use to become a better husband and a caring father if I eventually marry.
I have been working so hard ever since that time to meet ends means and I'm sure if I final arrive my destination I will have one of the perfect marriages.
Who was Behind the Advice [Who gave the Advice]
My mentor and big brother give me the advice. In my family, I have an elder brother which serves as a fatherly figure to us and anytime we need any guide and suggestions we run to him to immediately help us achieve that.
So when I need this help I went to him to help me and guide me through and he did so I was very much moved they way he explained the journey of marriage to me. Indeed I was very blind and never understood marriage until now.
Where and when did you Receive the Advice
I received this advice about a month ago in his house. As an elderly brother I went to his house and told him my problems and how I wanted to get married so deeply so he sat me down and then started advising me on the needed as a person.
It was a long series of discussion and I was really impressed as to how it went because I learnt a lot including things I knew before and things I had no idea about at all.
What Made It The Best Advice Ever
It is the best advice for me because it came from my elder brother and it saves me from making one of he biggest mistakes of my life. Imagine going into marriage unprepared like that, I would have run out of it after getting in because I will say that wasn't what I bargain for.
So it is the best advice for me because it saved me the stress that I initially would have faced as a person. It helped me to make a more meaning decision with my life and destiny. So this is why I consider it as the best advice ever.
I want to invite @ruthjoe, @solaymann and @malikusman1 to also join the contest.