I heard from today's teenagers, there are two types of anxiety. The first is "Gabungan", they say anxiety about needing a partner. The second is "Gajian", which is anxiety about exams, is that term true?
Ahh, never mind. Forget about the term of today's teenagers, just at the beginning of the article, it already discusses anxiety, not good for the nutrition of the heart. But this is it, my handsome friends, actually this article does have something to do with anxiety, even everyone has different learning styles. There are visual people, verbal people, physical people, and also logical people. So, which one are you? If you are a visual type, learning is very easy, if you see pictures, signs, or colors.
Well, because of that, you don't need to be like a verbal type. What he reads, enters his ears, he immediately remembers. If the visual type, it must mark the keywords, if possible with different colors. So it will be very, very easy to remember the keywords, so that when you repeat it, remember the color, remember the word, remember the story. We ourselves do not know how to learn, how we work, even make decisions. The decision is made based on these four pieces of information:
Decisions based on what you see.
Decisions based on what you hear.
Decisions based on what you feel physically.
And decisions that are calculated.
When I was in junior high school, there was a student in the same class as me, his name was Majid, but he was more familiar with the greeting Doyok, I'm sorry, maybe his physical form was less full, resembling Doyok. So he was often bullied, meaning often isolated, which caused Majid to experience depression and high levels of anxiety. He was often alone, maybe that made him more comfortable.
Different from his friends. If his other friends, usually play in one group. So every time he was bullied, his academic achievement decreased. Majid is the type of person who likes to isolate himself, because if he gathers more, he said there are more disturbances, less focus, less concentration. Then there are more obstacles, because maybe from his nature, he doesn't like the attitude of people who might dominate, or interfere in his affairs. I mean he is a closed person. So if you have problems, at school, at home, at the office, at work, your focus is on winning, you have to focus on your potential. Don't spend time on people you don't like.
Why would you change, if you change for people who don't like you. If you change for people who love you, it makes sense, and if you do something different, look at people who are already great, look at people who already understand, then every success leaves traces. And these traces are wide open, on many occasions, our job is to adjust our potential to these traces, so that when we arrive at a place where people were successful, people who used to mock us, will respect us, because you can do it. We are all born with unique potential, and we can all win, as long as we want to be ourselves. So here (Steemit), it's not just about working hard, but also working smart, not digging up your potential.
And remember, success belongs to anyone, everyone can do it, as long as the preparation is good, and also trying diligently. Remember our slogan, which is "Soaring Together with Steemit".
So, be yourself.
Hopefully useful.
Greetings always compact.
By @midiagam