Marriage is a happy event for both partners. The sacred promise of life and death forever is said with great love. This happy moment will of course be celebrated by inviting friends and family, including ex-lovers.
Inviting an ex-lover indicates friendship with a past relationship. But does your ex-lover want to attend the wedding?
I once attended my girlfriend's marriage, but it happened when I was not married. My friends and I came to attend the party. To be honest, I feel a little upset when I see my ex-girlfriend at the altar with someone else. For a moment, old love blossomed again but soon disappeared with the ridicule of my friends. I became a victim of bullying from the excitement of the wedding party.
If I were married then I would talk to my wife. Although my wife is the jealous type so there might be arguments in deciding whether to attend the wedding. I can only say that the past is over, now everyone has their own life partners.
What's wrong with us being present together and praying for them to be happy forever? There is nothing to worry about with that invitation. Let us all live our own destiny without having to suspect it.