Hello everyone in Steem Cameroon, "Comment allez vous?"
I am emmathompson from Nigeria.
I hope your day was fine because mine was fine too.
Welcome to my post!
I am writing this post for every single person and married couple here in Steemit, especially those who are facing one marriage challenge or the other. I would like to apologize first to the leaders of this Steemit community if i have not adhered to the rules and regulations governing the community as a Newbie. I believe this post will be a very important article for someone out there and on this platform.
I plan on making this post quite a understandable and interesting guide for you. This post is all about in fidelity in marriage. This topic is so wide. It covers a part for a woman and a man. In ordee for this post to be comprehensive enough, i have decided to split the topic into two parts A and B.
The part A (woman), which is the scope of this post will be broken up into seven sections:
What is marriage?
Who is a woman?
What is cheating according to a woman?
Why women cheat?
Signs of a woman's infidelity
Consequences of her action
Final considerations and morals.
WHAT IS MARRIAGE?
Marriage has several definition depending on individuals. To me marriage is a legal union between a man and a woman. To many people, marriage is a legally and socially sanctioned union between two individuals, typically involving emotional, physical, financial, and spiritual commitments.
It involves, emotional bond, commitment, partnership, intimacy, financial unity, social recognition, family (building a life together, potentially including children).
If you ask people on the street or interview them about who a woman is, you will be shocked for the definitions you will obtain. All the definitions you will get coimed to one meaning.
A woman is an adult female person. This definition encompasses various aspects of womanhood, including biological, social and culture dimensions. In otherword, when a female being passes the stage of a teenager she becomes a woman.
Yes, that's a common perspective. In many cultures, a female is considered a woman after passing adolescence, typically around 18-21years old. This transition is often marked by physical, emotional and social changes.
(i) Physical changes:
ii) Emotional and social changes:
Cheating, according to many men encompasses various forms of infidelity, emotional disconnection, and betrayal.
(a) Types of infidelity
Right now you may be saying, men also get involves in all the above mentioned activities.yes!
You are right. That is why this post is divided into two parts.
You may also which to know the reason why women consider cheating! That will be ememrated in the next section of this post.
In summary infidelity is the connection that one partner has for someone outside the marriage relationship against the happiness of the other partners.
No one on earth can tell exactly or give a reason women cheat. This sounds somehow right?
Let me explain to your understanding.
A woman is a special person cherish by many men. It's is funny right?
A woman can cheat for this and can also she can cheat for what she hears and what she doesn't hear.
A woman can also cheat for something and can also cheat for nothing.
She can cheat for a big thing and for small thing. Which ever way, women have so many reasons for cheating.
Someone once said, " Wealth and Riches cannot stop a woman from cheating. An average or middle class man cannot stop a woman from cheating. A poor man cannot stop a woman from cheating. Being strong and powerful or weak cannot stop a woman from cheating.
And the question was who then can stop a woman from cheating? The answer was, the only person who can stop a woman from cheating is the woman herself. If she wants to cheat, she will cheat and if she doesn't want to cheat nothing will make her cheat."
Impressive right!
Meanwhile, those who chose to cheat considered the following reasons;
The above information may not always mean a sign of infidelity. Any woman may choose to engage in any of those mentioned act without cheating.
In my community in Akwa Ibom State, there was a certain belief called, "Ekpo Nka-owo", and it was implemented to reduce infidelity among the women. I shall further explain "Ekpo Nka-owo" in the Part B of this article.
Maybe you have screwed up or jumped all the six sections above to be here. You really would like to know the general view of this post. You are welcome!
If you are a man reading this post, and you think this post is for you, go back to section four(4) of this post and read over again before returning to this section.
There is no justification for infidelity. And so, the reasons for cheating in mentioned in section four of this post are lies that some women used in order to justify themselves for their actions.
Any woman who cheats purposely want to cheat, not because of any reason. Yes! Because there are several women who had faced such challenges or even worst in their relationship or marriage and still stay faithful.
In summary:
Note: You are a virtuous being and without you, there is no family, no church or mosque and no society.
If you really want to amend your ways and have a good marriage, meet a Psychologist, a Counselor or explore the Internet for more solutions. Enough is enough! Your husband deserves better. Do not hurt him if you are planning to ,and don't hurt him anymore if you had donw it already.
Love is a beautiful thing!
Thank you my fellow steemians for reading.
Lastly, check back for the Part B (men) of this article which i will be dropping soon.