Happiness is a universal desire. We all seek it, and this quest has been part of human nature for centuries. Across cultures and eras, the longing to feel happier is a common thread that connects us.
Yet, happiness is not something we can simply extract from a machine. It doesn’t operate on a schedule. It arrives unexpectedly, often catching us off guard, and just as quickly it can fade away, similar to how a cloud can obscure the bright sun overhead.
I do not subscribe to the idea that we can achieve constant happiness. Life is filled with challenges, and anyone who claims to be perpetually happy may not be seeing the full picture.
Gretchen Rubin, a well-respected American author, offers valuable insights into achieving everyday happiness. Her book "Project Happiness" served as a significant inspiration for my own writing, particularly in my book "On Living – 20 Steps to More Happiness and Less Stress."
Rubin also hosts the award-winning podcast "Happier," where she shares her extensive research on happiness. Her approach is refreshingly straightforward and accessible, making her ideas easy to implement in daily life.
I have gathered some of Gretchen Rubin's top tips for finding happiness in your everyday routine. I hope these tips motivate and inspire you.
One crucial idea about happiness is that it must start within yourself. When we shift our focus from the overwhelming idea of grand happiness to the little moments in daily life, we can cultivate habits that foster our personal joy.
Rubin emphasizes a key point here: everyone is unique. What works for one person may not have the same effect on another. There is no universal formula for happiness. Therefore, it is essential not to feel obligated to follow what others say you “should” do for happiness.
For instance, you might come across advice claiming that waking up at 5 a.m., jogging, and drinking turmeric shots will lead to a happier life. But if you naturally wake up later, dislike running, and find turmeric unappealing, this approach will likely fail for you.
Understanding your own preferences and lifestyle is crucial in developing habits that truly resonate with you.