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Friendly Environment also makes family Bonding? by @alli001

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alli001
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14 days agoSteemit4 min read

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Bonded family

Some families seems saturated with verbal abuse, discrimination, lack of trust and countless cruel ways of hatred. Is it naturally made or it can be amended or broken? Surely, this cycle of unfriendly environment can be broken and replaced by friendly environment which will foster love, support, free communication and also makes and strengthen family bonding.


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Qualities and activities that create friendly environment and makes family bonding

It is very easy to approach someone who's jovial and express your feelings through communication. As a family, when we instill that social and friendly quality in us, it'll be easy for our family members to say their mind. With the flow and free communication without the fear of being ignored, the family bond will be fostered because the problems will be solved amicably.


It's always sad to hear that most family including the kids and parents do feel free to express their feelings to strangers instead of their family members. I don't blame them when i hear that, because most families don't give listening ears to their members. Children in particular appreciate the little time we buy just to hear a word from their mouth, but if we deprive them of this, it'll make them feel sad and unwanted.


When everyone feels comfortable expressing themselves without fear of judgment or being ignored, it strengthens the bond between family members.


Everyone in the family needs support, being it financial and emotional support. We can create a friendly environment and make family bonding by helping them with the little we have, instead of scaring them away like an angry lion. Most families do lend money from strangers, when they have siblings and parents who could possibly support them financially. They can't ask for support. Why? Because the environment or household in general is not a friendly.


Let's say you don't have money to create a friendly environment and make family bonding, you can as well participate in some activities that will trigger this bond within your family members. This is what i do to create a friendly environment and make family bonding

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Cooking together

I'm a very busy uncle/bother and my family knows about that, but even with my busy schedule, i do participate in different activities that will make my family feel warm, feel loved and cared for. We do cook together during evening hours when I'm back from work and less busy, during this period of cooking, we express our feelings, our thoughts over a particular thing and how i day went. My sisters enjoy seeing me at the kitchen, the same goes to mom and this foster our family bonding.

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Supportive

I was born into a hard-working environment were adults and kids join hands together for the betterment of the family. We have a waterleaf farm were my mother toil day and night for us to survive. I do help my family with the weed removal when I'm less busy. The feelings and reaction i get from her when she realised I'm the one that did the task makes me believe that she's happy, and it makes our family bond also being an exampler to our neighbours.

Let's open our arms and welcome each and everyone in our family by creating friendly environment through good qualities and participation of friendly activities that will make family bonding.

All pictures are captured from my device (Tecno Camon20)

I'm inviting @blessingogah-1 @josepha and @basil20

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@uzma4882

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